Mothers are superwoman but they are also human being is what we forget. In our patriarchal society we are laxmi, anapoorna, saraswati, vidya, bhakti, pooja and along with this most important is Shakti, Shanti, Sheetal, Saguna. To meet up so much is difficult and we soon become chandi, chamunda. She has various roles to play inside and outside of house and face many good bad situations. Managing these problems at home as well as outside is a great task.
We all go through problems. The type of problem might be different but if you pay attention minutely there are problems in each and everyone's life. You see sometimes the problem which you feel is problem is not problem but differences among ourself or lack of acceptance.
It's but obvious to have difference around or within you because of different behaviours of different people. Behaviours of people are different because of their experiences in life,their traits or may be their family traits. In this case you have to accept the person is going to behave like this because it is his trait. You can make him/her change for betterment of your relationship and if not possible then you have to change something within you to make some changes within you, you have to accept either the person as he is or accept the situation is going to be same because of different behaviours of people around me and it is not possible to change each and everyone's behaviour or thinking for me. Thus I need to accept it. When a small puddle comes in my way I don't stop there. I either ignore it and go from another side or I jump through it. This is how we are suppose to react to our problems. In order to cross the puddle I don't wait for summer to dry it and then cross it but I accept that the puddle is going to be there and I have to cross it if I have to go ahead. And if I don't accept the puddle then I will stop there awaiting for summer to come and dry it. Of course you can stop there till the summer but think why won't you stop there?. Yes, because it is foolish to stop there till summer because in my life I have important things to do and waiting near the puddle till summer will waste my time. And yes these people of different behaviour are those puddles of your life where you need to accept them and cross them because you have important things to do and you can't wait them to change. They might not change but you will wait and wait just accept them or ignore them jump over them or go from beside.
And when you can't do anything to change the situation accept the situation and change your vision towards it. Understand why the person is behaving so and you will be able to solve your problem.
Keeping this kind of mentality can help you everywhere
Let it be your office,home,relatives, friends or other social circle. It’s not so that you should not get angry or upset with other people it’s but natural we all are human beings and we all have emotions but if we don’t try to come out of this mess of emotions then you will surely find yourself in to the abyss. It is always good to work on subject rather on the object. We can’t control the objects every time but to ourself that is subject “We are the master of our own soul.”
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